I am not a big one for tonnes of beauty stuff. however when i found out i was pregnant i made sure everything i used was paraben and sulphate free and i've carried that through to what i use now. if i'm careful about what i eat (especially being the almost full veggie family we are) i ought to apply my food rules to my beauty/body rules. so everything below is free from any chemical crap and definitely not tested on animals.
although i am 33...yikes! i really feel i look it now, having a baby has definitely aged me! so it's always nice to find a new 'wonder' prodect. a friend recently recommended the 'weleda skin food' and it really feels good to slap that on a night to try and repair any damage! if you have any things you can't live without i'd love to hear about them!
if you click on the picture you'll be able to see it a bit bigger :)
footnote: i was not paid to list any of these products. they are all mine bought by my own hard earned cash....and the opinions i have are all my own! :)
27/02/2012
24/02/2012
LATELY
A stanley heavy one this week...he's been a bit more trying than normal...I'm not sure if it's frustration in communicating/not being able to walk yet/or teething...but he is more whingy than ususal and is sleeping SOOOOOOOOOOO badly at night. Waking up a lot and crying and crying until I eventually break and go in and sit and soothe him for hours or else bring him in bed with us. I'm hoping it is just a little phase and he'll be back to the chipper chap i know. For his and my sake!
Happy weekends xoxo
Jackpot score at the charity shop | Bathtime duck kisses | Trying to walk | My view most of the time | Discovering new cupboards | Enemies | & Friends |
21/02/2012
EATING.
It's becoming a battle. i'm now beginning to dread meal times, when i never used to. i'm trying so hard not to get stressed or cross at him when he performs his tricks in his highchair and refuses to eat anything. maybe it's my fault for using a highchair without straps...he knows he can stand in it and so always climbs about. sometimes i resort to letting him have his food on the floor/on my lap/in front of the tv/on the kitchen work tops...where ever really i can attempt to get a few more mouthfuls in. is this bad? am i making a rod for my own back with bad with bad eating habits? should i get a different highchair?
Ok so how much should a soon to be 14 month old eat? Stanley goes through good eating patches and then bad. i don't know if its some motherly thing or some weird feeder thing i have when i want him to eat lots. he's so far been an ok eater. i mean we went through a good patch that i even started to record his meals. will try most stuff. sometimes spits it back, sometimes not.
for example one day he'll eat raspberries like they are the best food on the planet then the next day he'll look at me when i give them to him like they are poison. is this normal? we never did baby led weaning properly. i'm sort of regretting that now. maybe it would have made me more relaxed with the quanities he was taking in...like he was in control and knew how much was right for him.
would be great if you have any advice. he's not exactly wasting away....but i just want to know this behaviour is ok, normal or whatever!
Thanks for all the votes by the way...i'm creeping up there and it's making me feel better!
Ok so how much should a soon to be 14 month old eat? Stanley goes through good eating patches and then bad. i don't know if its some motherly thing or some weird feeder thing i have when i want him to eat lots. he's so far been an ok eater. i mean we went through a good patch that i even started to record his meals. will try most stuff. sometimes spits it back, sometimes not.
for example one day he'll eat raspberries like they are the best food on the planet then the next day he'll look at me when i give them to him like they are poison. is this normal? we never did baby led weaning properly. i'm sort of regretting that now. maybe it would have made me more relaxed with the quanities he was taking in...like he was in control and knew how much was right for him.
would be great if you have any advice. he's not exactly wasting away....but i just want to know this behaviour is ok, normal or whatever!
Thanks for all the votes by the way...i'm creeping up there and it's making me feel better!
18/02/2012
his & HERS
mama: coffee to see me through until i do a food shop later in the day....nothing in the fridge :(
stanley: pasta with roasted vegetable and tomato sauce
stanley: pasta with roasted vegetable and tomato sauce
16/02/2012
15/02/2012
LONDON
i L O V E london.
i really miss it sometimes. not now i have a baby so much though. it is somewhere i personally didn't want to bring up my child. my family all live in brighton and for me it was a no brainer to move 'home' and be near them. i use to live in dalston and it was a fun place to be....happy times in my youth!
for now though i get to visit occasionally when i visit for a meeting or to drop off book artwork etc. i love walking across the bridge from waterloo to embankmant. my favourite journey. no matter if it's a grey old day like it was last thursday... i had a meeting in town. hopefully for something exciting. i can't say what, and i've probably just jinxed the damn thing now...but hey ho....it was worth it to get this glorious picture in of my favourite city in the whole world.
14/02/2012
ON TUESDAY WE READ...
...."NO TINC PARAULES" by Arnal Ballester and published by Media Vaca. I bought this book a long time ago in Spain. It has no words (which i think is what the title says?!) but a clear narrative running through it. Visually stunning using only two colours it uses composition in such a strong way.
It will be great I think to talk about with Stanley - plenty of potential to make up our own stories around what is happening on each page.
footnote: I'm continuing this series without Stanley as he is camera obsessed at the minute and just wants to wrench the thing out of my hand and push all the buttons, change all the settings so i haven't a clue what he's done with it...so for now, no baby, just books!
It will be great I think to talk about with Stanley - plenty of potential to make up our own stories around what is happening on each page.
footnote: I'm continuing this series without Stanley as he is camera obsessed at the minute and just wants to wrench the thing out of my hand and push all the buttons, change all the settings so i haven't a clue what he's done with it...so for now, no baby, just books!
13/02/2012
LATELY....BEEN AWAY
hello. so sorry for the lack of blogging recently. very unfair to ask you to vote for me every day when i don't keep up my side of the bargain! anyway i'm back to it. so if you could clicky click for me that'd be great. i'm mid 100 and something......so thank you so very much!
last week me and stanley flew to stockholm to visit one of my very best friends that lives out there. she is swedish so it's fair enough she lives there but i miss her so much. we were pregnant at the same time and our boys are 6 weeks apart but they could have been so much closer in age if she wasn't early and me late! it was a lovely trip and i survived it! flying my myself with a baby on my lap - which at times felt like travelling with a small dog on my lap...wriggle wriggle! felt good to achieve it though. i was very proud of me and him. we were like a little team together and i loved it.
i did pick the flight times to fit round his naps/sleep and it seemed to work. he slept for an hour on the way out so all good there. then on the way home he slept the whole way until he woke just as we began the decent and SCREAMED BLUE MURDER the whole way down. i think his ears were really hurting him but i couldn't get him to sip water/drink milk/take a dummy/play with a toy/eat anything or take his mind off it all all. poor lamb i tried everything but he was just so beside himself. i got a few dirty looks from other passengers. but hey no surprise there. i WAS trying to make him feel better obviously. so i just shot them one back. some people really enjoy making you feel even worse in an already bad situation. i assume they don't have kids?
the up side was that they have free wifi on board! amazing! i went instagram crazy! so exciting!
anyway it was a lovely holiday and so nice to see my friend and see the boys play together. they were so good. played well. had a few fisty cuffs over toys. but nothing major. all very cute. very sad to leave them both :(
hopefully we can visit again in the summer....
07/02/2012
HOW NICE IS THIS?!
I found this in a flea market called snoopers paradise in brighton. i sent it to a friend of mine that used to teach me...the amazing george hardie illustrator of the dark side of the moon fame... because i thought he'd like it. he did. but i had to take a copy myself as it was just too great to post without remembering it.
04/02/2012
03/02/2012
JUST A LITTLE CLICKETY CLICK PLEASE!
so hi i know i asked before and i'm asking again because they have reset the count on top baby blogs... i hope you have enjoyed reading my blog - certainly since i've been trying to blog more often, be more honest and generally put together some interesting posts! i feel sometimes like a jack of all trades, master of none. so am i a lifestyle blog.....eshhh how horrid is that phrase?!! an illustration blog, or baby blog? well i guess i'm all of these. i just try and write things that i'm doing, that i think other people are doing and hope people like to read about. i think it's difficult to work and bring up a baby. this blog helps keep me motivated and meet nice people like you! other mamas, illustrators, creatives and the like!
anyway if you like what you've been reading here please take a minute to vote for this blog and i'll keep up my side of the deal by trying to post interesting stuff! i won't ask again, i'll just leave the button on the left so you can click it every day or whenever you feel like. thanks so much.
just so you know what you've done so far has been amazing. you moved me up from like no 500 to 300 something and now i'm like 100 and something! so exciting. i know it shouldn't matter what flipping rank i am on that site, but it does. i'm like though though. just a teensy bit competitive!
love me, stanley and all my colouring in pencils!
his & HERS
obviously this was more like 'ours & his'! i didn't eat that entire pie on the left myself!
veggie puy lentil shepherds pie with a potato, sweet potato, pea and cheese top.
01/02/2012
NAPPIES
I've been meaning to do this post for a while but never got round to organising photos of each stage! Using cloth nappies is so routine and easy i didn't really want to take pictures in case it made it look harder than it was! Anyway it is nice to explain in case anyone wants to do it but is thinking it is a lot of work. Well let me tell you it really isn't. Once you are in the zone and have routine it is totally easy and no worse than running out of disposables and having to go out the flipping house to the shops to buy more.
So the reason you should use cloth? Easy. It saves you a heck of money. Oh yeah and of course all the environment stuff...i think that goes without saying. But really it is the money. Even with the cost of washing them. Water and electricity i hear you say. And still the answer is yes. You can read more on saving money here, here and here.
Now the environmental bit. A baby goes through about 5000 nappies from birth to potty. How scary is that? 5000??!!! And the trouble is even using biodegradable, although good because you are using a more natural nappy in itself, it will never degrade down fully in landfill because of the way our rubbish is thrown away. It is mummified instead. Sitting next to other rubbish means the bugs that would normally attempt to break down the nappy just don't get a chance.
Right lecture over with! This how it works for me....there are other ways! I think I started when Stanley was about 6 weeks old. Once i'd worked out what the hell was going on and that i can get dressed in the morning! This is Stanley in his snazzy nappy at 8 weeks.
We have two types of nappy. The bumgenius and totsbots. I personally prefer bumgenius - they are amazing. Hardly ever leak (unless i've left him in it for about 5 hours!) and hold all sorts of delightful poo. They are more expensive, but i think worth it. Remember as well the idea is that you can pass them on...saving more money the second time round! So an investment is worth it if this is your first and you're thinking, hey why not, lets have more babies!
We have about 20 nappies in total. I started with maybe 10 and increased my stash gradually. It cost with bucket and liner etc about £300 as an initial outlay. the ones in the pic above are a year old now and they look pretty ok to me - not stained or horrid and tatty, i would definitely use with my second baby...
So routine is as follows. Nappy bin with mesh liner. Dirty nappies go in. I put a few drops of tee-tree at the bottom as a natural antiseptic and keeps things fresh smelling! Weirdly the bin doesn't smell. We even keep in in the nursery with Stanley and i promise i can't smell anything no matter what is in there!
So, the bin is full and they need to be washed. Easy peasy with the mesh bag in the bin you don't have to touch anything - just pop the whole lot in the machine. The drawstring opens up and out come the nappies. I do a cold rinse cycle first. Then when stanley was just breastfed i use to pop in all his clothes and wash on a normal 40C with very little eco detergent. Now he is on proper food i don't very often wash his clothes in there...it all depends. I do wash on a 60C now. Body fluid changes when they start eating. Nice. So for me i feel i get a cleaner result!
Then hang on line and they are normally dry overnight. You can tumble dry the inner bits but I don't bother. In the summer it is brilliant they are dry in seconds in the sunshine and the sun bleaches any stains out of them. Then I stuff them - normally in front of the tv at night and hey we are ready to go again!
Now stanley is on proper food his poo leaves something to be desired. So i use these flushable liners and just drop that down the loo or in a nappy bin bag when i'm out and most of the horror has gone away. My washing machine thanks me for it too!
The other thing we use is these wipes. They are great, and again save you a fortune. They all get washed with the nappies as i throw them in the nappy bin too.
I use them out - it isn't really a lot more to carry. I have a bag that comes with me to put the dirty ones in and i take out the wipes too in another bag. All very easy. My nursery is happy to use them. As is my whole family. And of course my parents used cloth and pins so they think these are soooo easy!! I even packed them on a weeks holiday abroad because the villa we stayed in had a washing machine...and the hot sun dried them in record breaking time! no worse than packing disposables or buying overpriced uk ones when you're out there!
Any questions please leave a message in the comments. Or if you have any tips then please feel free to comment. I could have gone on more about all the little things - but i feel the basics are here - shout if i've missed something out you'd like to know more about! x
The one thing i will say is that no matter how hard i try i cannot find a nappy that works overnight. It was fine when stanley was waking to be fed in the night (up to about 8 months) because I just changed his re-usable nappy then, (i usually stuffed it with extra bamboo boosters to make sure he was dry for 6 hours or so) but now he is (mostly!!) sleeping through we have gone back to disposable. Still, using one a day doesn't make me feel too bad!

So the reason you should use cloth? Easy. It saves you a heck of money. Oh yeah and of course all the environment stuff...i think that goes without saying. But really it is the money. Even with the cost of washing them. Water and electricity i hear you say. And still the answer is yes. You can read more on saving money here, here and here.
Now the environmental bit. A baby goes through about 5000 nappies from birth to potty. How scary is that? 5000??!!! And the trouble is even using biodegradable, although good because you are using a more natural nappy in itself, it will never degrade down fully in landfill because of the way our rubbish is thrown away. It is mummified instead. Sitting next to other rubbish means the bugs that would normally attempt to break down the nappy just don't get a chance.
Right lecture over with! This how it works for me....there are other ways! I think I started when Stanley was about 6 weeks old. Once i'd worked out what the hell was going on and that i can get dressed in the morning! This is Stanley in his snazzy nappy at 8 weeks.
We have two types of nappy. The bumgenius and totsbots. I personally prefer bumgenius - they are amazing. Hardly ever leak (unless i've left him in it for about 5 hours!) and hold all sorts of delightful poo. They are more expensive, but i think worth it. Remember as well the idea is that you can pass them on...saving more money the second time round! So an investment is worth it if this is your first and you're thinking, hey why not, lets have more babies!
We have about 20 nappies in total. I started with maybe 10 and increased my stash gradually. It cost with bucket and liner etc about £300 as an initial outlay. the ones in the pic above are a year old now and they look pretty ok to me - not stained or horrid and tatty, i would definitely use with my second baby...
So routine is as follows. Nappy bin with mesh liner. Dirty nappies go in. I put a few drops of tee-tree at the bottom as a natural antiseptic and keeps things fresh smelling! Weirdly the bin doesn't smell. We even keep in in the nursery with Stanley and i promise i can't smell anything no matter what is in there!
So, the bin is full and they need to be washed. Easy peasy with the mesh bag in the bin you don't have to touch anything - just pop the whole lot in the machine. The drawstring opens up and out come the nappies. I do a cold rinse cycle first. Then when stanley was just breastfed i use to pop in all his clothes and wash on a normal 40C with very little eco detergent. Now he is on proper food i don't very often wash his clothes in there...it all depends. I do wash on a 60C now. Body fluid changes when they start eating. Nice. So for me i feel i get a cleaner result!
Then hang on line and they are normally dry overnight. You can tumble dry the inner bits but I don't bother. In the summer it is brilliant they are dry in seconds in the sunshine and the sun bleaches any stains out of them. Then I stuff them - normally in front of the tv at night and hey we are ready to go again!
Now stanley is on proper food his poo leaves something to be desired. So i use these flushable liners and just drop that down the loo or in a nappy bin bag when i'm out and most of the horror has gone away. My washing machine thanks me for it too!
The other thing we use is these wipes. They are great, and again save you a fortune. They all get washed with the nappies as i throw them in the nappy bin too.
I use them out - it isn't really a lot more to carry. I have a bag that comes with me to put the dirty ones in and i take out the wipes too in another bag. All very easy. My nursery is happy to use them. As is my whole family. And of course my parents used cloth and pins so they think these are soooo easy!! I even packed them on a weeks holiday abroad because the villa we stayed in had a washing machine...and the hot sun dried them in record breaking time! no worse than packing disposables or buying overpriced uk ones when you're out there!
Any questions please leave a message in the comments. Or if you have any tips then please feel free to comment. I could have gone on more about all the little things - but i feel the basics are here - shout if i've missed something out you'd like to know more about! x
The one thing i will say is that no matter how hard i try i cannot find a nappy that works overnight. It was fine when stanley was waking to be fed in the night (up to about 8 months) because I just changed his re-usable nappy then, (i usually stuffed it with extra bamboo boosters to make sure he was dry for 6 hours or so) but now he is (mostly!!) sleeping through we have gone back to disposable. Still, using one a day doesn't make me feel too bad!

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